you need a HUGE capacitor!!! Your amp is sucking all of the power from your battery and alternator so it cant power anything else.
http://www.sonicelectronix.com/cat_i6_capacitors.html
I would get at least a 2.0 farad capacitor, the higher the more power the actual capacitor can store. Power Acoustik has very good capacitors, their 3 farad is what I had and I had no problems with it acting up or the lights dimming.
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