90/100w bulbs and can u get the usdm vr4 just the font lip?

[atx]

will 90/100w bulbs burn out the stock sockets? to bright to be legal?

[G-spot]

130w/90w and still fine...(and legal, in most places) https://www.thegalantcenter.org/style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif
check your local ordinances for that info.
As for the bulbs, the average lifespan on stock harness lasts around 5 months so installing heavy duty harness will keep the shine longer.

[atx]

so if i get higher wbulbs my lifespan should be like 5 months and if i get like 55 it will be long lasting

[pinoyesv6]

so if i get higher wbulbs my lifespan should be like 5 months and if i get like 55 it will be long lasting

5 months is guaranteed. it might be more, it might be less. since those bulbs draw more power than what the harness was designed for, the harness will have more stress upon them thus causing premature harness failure.

if you get the 55 watt bulbs the harness should last longer than it would with the 90/100w