you just gotta keep on trying
there is a tab on eithe side with a hole in the middle that you have to get a piece of the fog light back into
you can also remove the whole fog light and housing
if you go under the car there are 4 nuts that hold the housing onto the bumper and pull out the housing and set it back into place that way
I made that mistake a few times
when changing the stock fog light bulbs I would pull out the whole housing and then I realized that you can just unplug the bulb from underneath the car
hope I made sense and hope it helps
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